DJ Says
I have feelings of
Failure
Falling flat on your face while attempting something is definitely no fun, but it's not the end of the story either. Look at failure like a big piece of lumber, building you, one experience at a time, into a more resilient and stronger version of yourself.
DJ says:
"Redefine your understanding of failure as necessary steps to success."
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It's a good day to cast aside the fear of failure. No more wasting energy on fear. Be determined to invest your time, effort, and energy into becoming the most healthy and complete version of yourself because YOU are ridiculously amazing. Mistakes are almost always part of the process. Instead of dreading them, embrace them as part of your story, leading you toward personal growth and happiness.
DJ says:
"The fear of failing is almost always worse than failing."
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Sometimes, the things you cannot do well can be a blessing in disguise. Practicing mindfulness and growing stronger in areas of weakness is a worthy goal.
DJ says:
"You will be surprised how strong you will become when you persevere in self-improvement."
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The benefits of goof-ups may surprise you. DON'T keep trying to find a wrong to bring about a right. DO remember, when you unintentionally make a mess out of something, stay on high alert for ways to improve and strengthen yourself from what you went through.
DJ says:
"Always be ready to soar higher by inviting the DOWNS to push you farther UP!"
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Remember, worldly success is not the ultimate goal. It's about finding contentment and happiness in your journey. If you focus on personal growth and happiness, you'll be surprised how much meaningful success will accompany that quest!
DJ says:
"Hey, I know. I'm just a canine. But I'm a happy canine. Letting my contented spirit rub off on you might do you good!"
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When you feel a little like a failure, a loser, or unworthy, find a private place and say this aloud, with authority, three times: "Life isn't even close to being done making me into the special person I WILL BECOME!"
DJ says:
"Remind yourself often that you are a work in progress - a GOOD work in progress!"
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Don't be afraid to try. Instead, say to yourself, "It's okay to fail because it will teach me something." Failures and dumb decisions are stepping stones to success. We won't learn or grow unless we try (and sometimes fail).
DJ says:
"Practice being brave and give it a try. You can do it! I'm cheering for you!"
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One antidote to feeling like a failure or extra lonely is to think of something helpful that you can do or say to enable someone else to succeed at what they hope to accomplish. Service toward others will do wonders for your own heart and self-esteem.
DJ says:
"When you help someone else succeed, you, yourself, become more successful."
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Here's a perfect recipe to help you overcome the fear of failure: Start envisioning something you know would be good for you to pursue. Mix in a healthy portion of meditation. Now, blend in the fiber of visualization. Add the fire of passionate pursuit. Life's oven of setbacks will get intensely hot. No worries - you are cooking up a huge batch of success.
DJ says:
"Become a master chef at serving up ideas worth pursuing!"
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Success can be a discouraging word because it makes you think that, compared to others, what the media says, or what parents expect you to accomplish, you are a failure. This kind of reasoning calls for a time-out! Goals are good. Working hard is important. Being competitive can be positive. But don't let the ups and downs of life ruin your life.
DJ says:
"Live life the best you can without being a slave to more and 'better.'"
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Plan for success, work hard, and be grateful for it. If you fail, it is not the end of the world. Life is a mixture of success and failure. Being content no matter how things turn out is a huge success in and of itself.
DJ says:
"Tell yourself you are still learning, growing, and changing. Who you are now is not who you will be tomorrow, next month, or next year!"
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Learn to visualize the difference between draining and sustaining goals. All goals take work. Make sure the goals that you're pursuing are life-giving.
DJ says:
"Run hard after 'golden goals'...the kind you will find on life's high road!"
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